The words we use don’t just describe reality—they shape it. “Got to“ closes you off, makes you smaller, turns your life into a to-do list you never asked for. This works because it meets you where you are. You don’t need to add anything to your life. You just need to notice the difference between obligation and invitation. One vowel. That’s it. —Bill Burnett and Dave Evans, authors of the forthcoming book, How to Live a Meaningful Life: Using Design Thinking to Unlock Purpose,…

